Bicara masadepan?

Entah mengapa, akhir2 ini saya baru sedar yang bilangan orang yang dah berpasangan di kalangan kami2 ini, dah bertambah. Menjadi tanda tanya juga kalau anak2 akhir zaman sekarang ini menganggap berpacaran itu tidak apa,biasa-biasa aja. Apakah ia sudah menjadi trend yang mendapat sambutan, dan diri ini sudah ketinggalan zaman?Masakah? Oh-tidak! Tapi kali ini saya ingin bicara tentang berpacaran yang sah. Yang for-eternity gitu.. >_<" Rasa pelik sangat bila mendengar ada sahabat2 menyebut,"Suami kita.." atau "Zauj ana..." atau "My husband.." toka.. Biasanya akak2 yang dah tua2 je yang cakap sebegitu. Sedar tak sedar akhir tahun ini saya akan masuk 22. (Bonda kahwin 22!) Masih muda lagi tu.. Belum habis travel around the world pun tau.. ^-^ Saya tak rasa umur itu satu pengukur yang mengatakan kita perlu kahwin bila-bila-dan-bila. Cumanya, macam-macam akan lebih terjaga kalau lebih cepat kita jumpa orang yang "mampu" menjaga kita itu insyaAllah sampai bila-bila. Beberapa hari lalu, seorang teman rapat saya(orang Jepun) bertanyakan tentang perkahwinan. Entah mengapa, tiba-tiba sahaja persoalan yang boleh dikatakan 'peribadi' seperti ini ditanyakan oleh dia. Orang jepun yang muda2 ini biasanya bukan jenis yang nak ambil tahu tentang hal orang lain. "Nadiah, awak rasa awak nak kahwin bila?" "Ha..?" "Bila sudah tiba masanya, lebih cepat lebih baik," saya jawab dengan segan silu.. *^-^* "Tak apa, awak ada 2 tahun lagi sebelum graduate," (saya sungguh tak mengerti apa yang ingin dia sampaikan kat sini..) "Nanti kalau dah kahwin nanti macam-macam benda awak tak boleh buat, awak tahu kan? Mana lagi tempat yang awak nak pergi tu, baik awak plan betul2 sebelum kahwin" (Dia tahu tentang impian besar saya pergi melawat negeri asing di bumi tuhan ini) Saya jawab, "Kenapa perkahwinan itu bunyinya seperti melepaskan freedom dan cita-cita? Macam akan masuk penjara, dan tak boleh keluar sampai bila-bila," "Saya rasa, kenapa tidak saya kahwin dengan orang yang akan travel dunia ini BERSAMA-SAMA saya. Lagi best, ada kawan" "Mana awak nak tahu kalau dia akan ikut awak dan suka dengan apa yang awak nak buat?" "Saya rasa kita semua akan end-up jadi suri rumah" ~x-x" "Saya rasa semua orang perlu tanya diri masing-masing semasa memilih. Apa yang dia nak. Contohnya la kan, atas sebab apa kita tu nak kahwin dengan dia?" "Sebab awak suka dia lah awak kahwin dengan dia," "Iye ke? Tu je ke..? Tak semestinya.."(saja nak memeningkan kepala dia..memang dia dah pening dah masa tu) "Betul la saya cakap, dia mesti good looking, orangnya baik.." "Hmm.. iye ke, kene ke macam tu?"(hehe.. saya suka melayan kawan yang suka banyak tanya macam dia ini) "Takkan la tak kut! Nadiah, kita tanya betul2 ni la" "Awak nak tahu tak macam mana saya nak pilih nanti..?"

to be continued.. (depends on the comments i'll be getting for this)

The "sacred" Book

It was my first Christian class for this new semester. Our Sensei had a session where he wanted to explain back all the basics of christianity incase we've forgotten. After an hour or so of talking non-stop, (even those who sat infront of him were sleeping) he started to talk about what is the "sacred" book. Well, here's the part where I had to say to this girl besides me, "If only he tried to listen to the reason why"

Emotions in Tanah Besar.

Students on the way to school.

A university in the City.

Bicycles in the centre of Beijing.

Snow covered the whole city.. It was VERY cold!

How do you read this in Chinese? I know what does it means though~ ^-^"

Chinese art at the mall.

Milk in packs?? Interesting.

MasyaAllah, the train was so small(compared to Japanese' train) that everyone was PACKED inside! I had to be pulled out when we reached the station!

The weather was not good at that time, but I had a GREAT trip! ;)

People in China SHOULD drink a LOT of WATER!! Or you'll be sick before you know it!

Japan.Strange.Weird

*You really have to mind no.7. Pretend they're not there.* I must admit that I did not like the documentary, at first. But, I really have to say that they ARE true. Which, I hate to say, as a person who likes Japan. But the part where, the girls are crazy about branded bags and DIETS are SUPER TRUE!!

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The famous Iman's Blueberry Cheesecake for Hanami. This time it reads "Sakura"

Sakura Mankai.

Lautan manusia menikmati keindahahan ciptaan Allah yang sementara. Sakura hanya bertahan beberapa hari sahaja sebelum ia jatuh menyembah bumi.

Pohon Sakura di hadapan rumah. Sekeping bersama sakura-tachi.

Moving-out-and-in.

I can't imagine writing down everything that I had to go through during my house-moving process in this blog. It's going to be as troublesome as the experience itself. However, sharing this could be --well-- interesting. From my past houses, I only had to use my school as my guarantor for the rent. Just by paying 9,000yen for 2 years, everything will be alright. However, this time, it is said that I have to use this JID company as my guarantor and I have to pay them 30% of my rent, which is about 16,000yen. If that is what the owner of the house wants, then, there is nothing I can do but to pay extra for the company. Few days later, the company called me and the said that they want a Japanese person to be my guarantor even though their company is acting as a guarantor. Hah?? The phone-conversation was so confusing and I had to call my school, my housing agent, and the guarantor company back and forth all day long. -it-was-very-tiring-

Fine, if you need a Japanese, then I'll look for one. But, who?

The only person that crossed my mind was the Japanese lady at Petronas Office that take cares of our issues in Japan. I don't think that she will be a guarantor, but I just gave the JID company her name- and her number.

One thing you have to know about guarantor in Japan is that, the JAPANESE will not take such responsibility for others. No matter how nice and friendly they are to you, as soon as you mention the word, guarantor.. believe me, they can just pretend like they never knew you all their life. It's amazing.

As IF we're gonna run away not paying the rent. InsyaAllah our scholarship will be just fine. All we need is just a NAME. (Another friend of mine is having the same problem until now, and she cannot move-into the new house if she can't find a Japanese that can be her guarantor) I had no idea what did the Petronas lady told the agent, the next thing I knew, it was OK to use the school as a guarantor. (Did the owner not INSIST on using a COMPANY, and there is NO OTHER WAY, but the COMPANY?)

One thing selesai, Alhamdulillah. Miracles ARE there.

Next episode will be continued..